Alone uh!...No its lonesomeness!

It was one of the long hour phone call I had with my baba,that usually takes place on Sunday. My ma claims I have inherited everything from her (as if Im parthenocarpic) but it seems I have got the dominant 'gene of speaking' from my dad.
Literally 'of speaking less'.
What is the reason behind bringing the topic of speaking is, I love to be alone.At times I just stare at my phone even though Im geting a call and learning about it however, this news was been transferred to baba's. He is himself an introvert though not a loner.
I have always had a problem with the word alone or loner and also I dread about lifelong confinement as marriage.
 So when he asked me, I thought he will start searching for the reason and parents blaming an animal called boyfriend for anything wrong in their daughter's life is an Indian standard law. But, to my surprise we had an excellent conversation about the relativeness of being lonely and how it changes with our age. We had an argument of it to call lonesomeness.
He though speaks less and has very few measures to express himself (may be we have never provided him) told what Im trying to concise in brief.
Alone, loneliness, loner, lonesomeness,loneliness,alone are like the phases of human life and it has a circle like life and death.
We are born alone, suffer from loneliness when our loved ones leave us, act like a loner in crowd and their creeps an awesomeness of being lone i.e we start loving it as if we were seeking for it,here we are in the phase called lonesomeness. Slowly with age, loneliness subsides the awesomeness, we become weak and dependent and atlast we die alone.
I know it might sound absurd but he never had sound so true. It might be bit depressing as I have brought up with a very negative kind of topic.
In a lighter note, he had some more thing to tell. As Im in phase 4 and he is somewhere between phase 5 and 6 , he wishes me to be prepared for the next two phase which might be terrible.
Do you want to marry or already have someone fixed??
P.S. Wow! My dad just have won the prize for changing my amusement to disappointment ! Ive underestimated his expression it seems.