What I learned....

Life has given me a lot. A lot of ups and downs is what I might mean or the experiences. What I meant here is ; it made me better and not bitter.

Like many other people I had a lot of issues; issues related to innumerable 'why?' to a lot more 'why not!'. From right to wrong to my own prediction and presumption. I had spread a lot of negativity around that unfortunately was like a needle in haystack.

Now dealing with what I learned over time-

SORRY- yes! I understood the importance of this magical word if spoken even though its not a mistake of mine, can work like a candle in dark room. Taking responsibility of a problem is the best way, not only it saves argument but also keeps the peace of mind. It might even happen the opponent understands his/her mistake. I learned to say sorry while it doesn't matter who should be saying so.

I AM ME- sometimes time makes you idealize someone better and sometimes it just make you feel less. I've been in this phase until I learned their is another everyone but not me. I'm me, Prerana. I can take their journey as a milestone but I cant be one of them. They are a part of my development and not self-pity. I would always be happy to be me.

BEING HAPPY- even though calamity strikes, one in real distress often find solace if their near ones are happy. I took this job to be happy myself, so that people around not only get a reason to be so but also try the same on others.

NO PRE-CONCEPTION- some incident that might happen shouldn't take away my peace. I have stopped judging the space between the two lines and have ceased the tomorrow's worry to disturb my today's smile. Sometimes we tend to over-think a situation but we forget that their is always a probability. I believe certain things should be kept as it is and should be dealt one at a time.

BEING A PEST- over protectiveness and possessiveness often make us a trouble to our own life. People are responsible for their own happiness or sadness, I cant prevent either just by being their near ones. I can suggest but cant direct anyone's choice. So the best part to keep any relation safe is thinking it like sand, if you press too tight, it will fall.

LESS EXPECTATION- this is a very hard job when you are close to someone in any relativeness. I might not pass completely in this test but I have been through it to a certain extent. Priority matters not that how much importance Im given. I try to feel the best in least amount of affection provided.

P.S.- I'll learn much more as I age to be a better me, in seeing and understanding the silver lining of each cloud and cherishing the life beyond the horizon.